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Kate (1): Helping Managers Soften — Shifting "You Should" to "I" Statements

$35

Shift from self-criticism to self-compassion, transforming harsh inner commands into a more relational, "I"-centered dialogue. 4 chapters, 4 lessons.

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Kate (1): Helping Managers Soften

Shift from self-criticism to self-compassion, transforming harsh inner commands into a more relational, "I"-centered dialogue. 4 chapters, 4 lessons.

Managers that speak in "you should" are often trying hard to keep the system safe — they just learned a harsh way of doing it. This session shows how to work with that harshness without fighting it, helping the manager find a softer, more effective way to communicate.

The language shift from "you should" to "I" statements is deceptively simple and deeply powerful. Kate's session demonstrates exactly how that shift happens and what it unlocks in the inner world.

What You'll Learn

About Melissa

Melissa Sandfort has been an IFS Certified Practitioner since 2010, with over 2,350 hours of IFS training, 1,000+ hours of in-person training with Richard Schwartz, and over 8,000 hours of her own personal IFS work.

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